Loss-Life Lesson
Loss- Is it actually giving something up or is it getting some clarity? I have experienced rejections in my life and this write-up is coming from a dark space of my life. However, the insight it offered me isn't all dark. Coming from a different family background, I always was looking for something more than friendship - something deeper and more meaningful and long-term with all of my girlfriends. However, I received my first rejection at the end of school, where a friend I valued deeply, decided to walk away so she could make new and better friends in college. She did not want to remain in touch with me. Well, I couldn't quite recover, I think up until now. Over time I was rejected by multiple of my friends - citing family reasons, and personal reasons and it got me really wondering. I now understand the disproportionate expectation of love I may have indicated or suggested to them by my behavior. They probably feel burdened and exhausted in my presence. My genuine affecti...