Who knows better- destiny or me?

 We are like literally bugged following this enormous alone me time gifted to us by the pandemic, as to what is it that I seek? As a species, honestly, I don't believe we can all have genuinely different answers. Are we all really as different as we are in our own heads? Just ponder, who doesn't wish to be happy, successful, or loved? Aren't these are major concerns? Obviously, the people who are fortunate enough to read and intellectually try to process it are way beyond the food, shelter, and clothing category, hence our seeking is now above this. It has come down to abstract/absurd feelings of job love, environment love, and accepting ourselves just as we are.

I have a different take to hard work or passion to achieve your dream job, I feel we are all assigned a task by the divine. Remember how you never wanted to be a doctor but you wound up being one? How you always hated history but now a die-hard fan? Or maybe how you never use what you learned in your course at all! If only we could find some part of us in every bit of work. Isn't it true for love as well? So for me, we may be given any task and it ll prove our character as to how we take it. Hence I think we should have the chance to try different vocations and see what suits us. I am quite of the opinion that we cannot enjoy a work where we are of no use. It is not possible. So whatever we are good at turns into our liking and then our "passion". For being good at something we need to repeat it and make all the possible mistakes and learn how to handle those, that's when we become good at something and like it.

That's another reason why we can actually never like life... Every moment is a different obstacle/opportunity and hence we can never make enough mistakes to understand this through and through. So we can never get enough of it and neither can we ever be good at it.

Do we know better or does destiny?

Well honestly the people I actively chose were kinda not my type...but the one I had accepted with surrender to my life has been most divine. Can we just surrender to where our lives take us? I honestly believe there is no fixed self. People can change a lot become unrecognizable or complete strangers. So can life. 

We need to see every activity like a game where playing matters and not winning!

I believe in taking sides and I stand by destiny.

Vorsehung!




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